Ok You Birds Let me explain Why all of you can't co-parent with your exes
Heard a girl today spitting facts on facebook so real it was the Sunday Taking SH&T topic of day. Why Exes cant co-parent, well let's first start off with you birds are petty as shit, especially you females and most of this blog is for you. I am the mother of a 10 yr old and I'm not being a hypocrite cuz I also did all of this and trust me its petty. When you have a baby with a man there is no guarantee these days your gonna stay with him that's just facts. Now you say you down to co-parent but as soon as the other women steps in you wanna fight like a dog for a bone. Time! Is this about you or your child, And Stop! the excuses I don't want another Bitch around my child, Yeah men do it to when you move on but you care more then they do. 99% of women ain't trying to hurt your kid, now I had to learn this as well. Now if you ex broke up with you and move to another chick yes there should be a rule before a male starts introducing your child to another women, which yes I know most men don't do cuz they selfish.
Now if you got a good father for your kids and your kids ain't starving or beaten up and your kids come to you happy Why on earth are you petty as by brow beating the man in front of them especially if you have daughters. So we teach our daughter to be petty now. We teach our son to hate there father because they choose to love another. Let me tell you a personal story that might make you see different.
See that pic above that is Jae and her dad. Jae is now 10 and for 10 yrs We have been mommy and daddy. Are We together? No and We haven't been in 6 years. Did he break my heart? Hell yea he cheated on me with the women he is with and had a baby with. Was I angry? Hell Yeah, Was I petty and gave him and the women hell on earth. You damn right I did but then I realized Jae was happy and she was healthy and his girl took care of her and respected my wishes as her mother. Her father I ran thru mud all cuz of my anger and petty actions, when I realized he can never replace me. I'm mommy I gave birth , no man can take away 9 months and our bond. SO why be petty about it. All I was getting is a headache and tired of the text wars and Jae being caught between the two people she love the most.
Like damn you chicks don't get tired of hearing yourself repeat the same song. Wait why u mad at his new girl you don't know her like i didn't . How you know she is causing your kid harm and don't think kids like. When my daughter is mad she lives on everyone. She a Gemini being two-faced is in her nature but my point is kids want both there parents so they will lie. Now before you go fighting a chick for your kids honor should i say to make yourself feel better. Let's keep it 100 you not doing it for you, your doing it for your pride. I know I've done it. So get over yourself.
You got the man on child support but he supports his kid, he visits he picks the kid up takes him to school, Bitch what more you want. Ohh yea his money in your pocket, No Birds its Child support for the child not your new Prada. Like damn I'm so ashamed of the motherhood community sometimes especially ones of color. Like white women get married, divorce move on and don't give a damn about the husband actually there more jealous of the women then my men of color are of ours. Why cause your baby father dated you, Its not about your looks its about your selfish bird acting personality that got you separated from them. Please don't say but all I get is ain't shit niggas either maybe you need to see what's wrong with you simple bitch that you deal with ain't shit niggas. Your a women you don't need to buy sex or a man. All i got do is step out butt ass naked and I got 12 followers shit it will be if I was like Jesus and I turned water into wine.
SO ladies Do me a favor leave the ex alone , move on meet someone new. Start a new family, a new life please. LESS WORK LESS STRESS AND ITS NOT ABOUT U. IT'S ABOUT THE KIDS.