I'mma Keep it 100%(the harsh truth about relationship with men and women)

So 2017 is coming and I'mma keep it 100% relationships are not easy at all and never will be it is alot of give and take. Some people take more than they should give but hey that's life. Men and Women are two different creatures and yes We are creatures because We do werid shit in general. Women for example are these most emotional creatures and Why am I saying this cause Shit I'm a female and I'm not abut to be a hypocrite and act like some days my shit dont stink because it do. Women like to devise plans to get men to notice the shit they do, what some of us dumb birds don't get is that can blow up in our faces because eventually even if your other half don't notice Bitch someone else does like my black ass. I be the first to point it out to another especially because most likely I did it. Men on the other piss me off because it take 2 mins to say nice babe and then the Bitch might actually let you be.

Men also like to make up such bullshit excuses for why they did something instead of keeping it 100% and say shit like I did't want to hurt you. My attitude is Id be less hurt if you had just have been honest. I would have been mad yes but damn the truth is a lot better to swallow. Fascinating thing is that Men don't like being talked to a certain and way and say I'm a grown ass man but then don't act like it. It kills me cant just honest. Now I have a theory if you in a relationship the type where your engaged and married and your other half is keeping you on a tight leash for a long time I hate to tell you this you need to ask yourself what you did to make that person be that way. Its just facts.

There is no thing as a perfect relationship because no two people or couples are the same. Each person goes thru there own situations and journeys together. Yes there are some we can relate to and yes there are some things in relationships that are just basic knowledge and facts. The one thing that i say is true is cut the bull shit Men don't get Women and Women don't get Men yeah we can empathize with each other but do we truly get it. For example a women will take hours to get ready where a man is wash, dress and go, a man will say blue and a women will say Indigo. A women instantly responds to his text while a man sit there sees it and then take only god knows how long to respond to it. It just what makes us who we are. The question all couples or starting couples need to ask yourselves are How far are you willing to go? Can you sacrifice for another? How deep is your love for that person? and Do you love that person enough to make this work? I don't believe you should force yourself to be with someone if your unhappy and to keep it 100% if more people thought like that there would be less cheating between men and women. Like just let the person go before you wander into other territory take your claim off and another and allow that person to go free or choose to heal in there own way since the break up is new and fresh, but of course here comes the bs I didn't want to hurt you!. Dummy your hurting them more when you cheat and Im putting this in bold so people can see that line loud and clear. Numb nuts your cheating hurts way more. Now I hope that was clear because there is gonna be some fool who is gonna again mess that up.

Relationships are like I said a give and take. Some time you have to give and some times you have to take. People have a tendency to take advantage of each other in a relationship and we forget who we are or should i say who we were. Some times a person in a relationship gotta put their foot down and say this is what it is and I need to do this for myself. A healthy relationship can be achieved its just all about how much the person wants it.